One of my all-time favourite books is Ayn Rand's The Fountainhead. The protagonist, Howard Roark, has always fascinated me with his relentless pursuit of his own vision - completely undeterred by societal expectations or conventions.

That spirit is perfectly summed up in Rand's powerful line: "The question isn't who's going to let me; it's who's going to stop me."

I first picked up The Fountainhead in my twenties, and Roark’s unwavering commitment to his principles struck a deep chord within me.

Here was someone who refused to compromise, who didn’t seek approval, and who wasn’t afraid to stand alone. It made me pause and reflect on all the times I had hesitated - waiting for permission, for someone else’s validation, before taking a step forward.

Like many, I grew up conditioned to look for a ‘green light’ before taking action. Whether from teachers, peers, or more often my parents, there was always that nagging question: "Will they approve?"

But I eventually realised that constant approval-seeking was not only limiting, it was unnecessary. The real question I needed to ask myself was: "Do I believe in this?"

When I finally began to trust my own judgement and capabilities, a world of possibility opened up. By 27, I had co-founded a company - not because someone gave me the go-ahead, but because I gave myself permission.

Since then, I’ve tried to embody the mindset of “Who’s going to stop me?”

Obstacles and setbacks no longer feel like full stops, but stepping stones. Each challenge is an opportunity to adapt, grow, and strengthen my resolve.

This shift in perspective has been liberating. Instead of fearing failure, I now see resilience as its own kind of success - proof that I’m still moving, still creating, still refusing to stand still.

As a female entrepreneur, Rand’s words resonate even more strongly. They are a potent reminder that women need not be confined by outdated roles or expectations.

When we stop seeking permission and start owning our right to pursue what matters to us, we unlock a power that is not only transformative for ourselves, but also for others watching. We become examples, trailblazers, and catalysts for change.

For me, The Fountainhead was more than a good read, it was a blueprint for authenticity. It helped me to anchor myself in my own values and convictions, rather than being swayed by external approval.

It’s a reminder that living authentically isn’t always easy, but it is always worth it. Because when we live in alignment with who we truly are, we stop asking “Who’s going to let me?” and start asking the only question that matters: “Who’s going to stop me?”

Ayn Rand’s words are more than a bold statement; they’re a call to action. An invitation to step into our own strength, to trust ourselves fully, and to recognise that permission is rarely needed when it comes to pursuing our dreams.

So the next time you catch yourself hesitating, waiting for approval, pause and ask: “Who’s going to stop me?”

Because in the end, the only person who can truly stand in your way - is you.